I don't know if it's the magic of the New Year, or the new moon that came with it, but I have been on fire this week!! It is truly incredible all that I have been able to accomplish and organize, the break-throughs and growth I have experienced with clients, and the unbelievable opportunities that are coming my way. As my business grows, I find I am growing with it -- places where I still held onto some fear and doubt are melting away, leaving no trace of what held me back for so long.
For those who don't believe in the Law of Attraction, let me assure you it is very real and very powerful. By creating an intentional mindset and staying focused to the goals and outcomes I desire, I find the actions I need exist directly in front of me and I no longer seem to be waffling on what my next step will be.
How many times do we fight with ourselves to figure out how to or where to start, where the next step will come from, or how we will figure out the pieces to help us get to where we want to go? Too many times, I assure you. What if, instead, you let go of the "how" and simply focus on the "what" ... that is, the what attached to your compelling "why"?
For what happens when we do is magical. Once we destroy the noise and release the fear and doubt holding us back, the answers become crystal clear. The only "how" you need to know is how to let your faith fuel you. For faith is all you need. We make our journey difficult but trying to control how the path unwinds -- rather, we should embrace the journey and let the path guide us. For sometimes in the curves and winds of the road, we find the most amazing and unexpected gifts.
Think about how many times your GPS has given you the shortest route to get you from one point to another ... then, you find yourself stuck in traffic or caught up in construction, or better, that the highway has been renovated and the GPS isn't synced with new route properly. How many times in those instances have you found yourself taking an alternate route only to find the most incredible treasure, maybe it was a hidden hideaway, or one of those whole-in-the-wall, best-place-in-the-world kind of restaurants? Either way, that becomes your new route, or at minimum, a great memory, when you have the destination in mind.
The same is true about your personal GPS. What if you stopped trying to take the shortest route and try alternate routes provided to you? Maybe, try taking a more scenic, or off-the-beaten path route and see where it leads you? What would happen?
But, before you can even do that, you need faith. For faith will give you the promise of something wonderful. Faith tells you that whatever path you take, you eventually will get to the destination you want (or, maybe an even better place you never would have consider otherwise). Dare to take a risk, dare to believe, dare to stretch out of your comfort zone and trust your own internal navigational system. I am!!! ... and, the results have been phenomenal!
I continue to be extremely grateful for all the blessings in my life, and for the love that keeps spilling out of my heart!! I believe in letting my faith be the fuel, letting go of controlling the "how," and giving God the steering wheel. For the outcome is sure to be everything (and, usually more) than I ever dreamed.
Here's to a truly tremendous and powerfully uplifting 2014!!! Happy New Year everyone! #youempoweredstrong
I believe every journey, no matter how difficult, starts with our own faith and beliefs. The road is not always easy, and I know there will be hurdles to overcome, but I ask during our time together, that you trust yourself and this process we are about to embark upon. I find that through prayer I am able to quiet my mind and heart down, and allow peace to guide me forward.
Here is a prayer, and excerpt from my new book in the works, that I wrote to help me when I was at my lowest point a few years ago. I had hit rock bottom, was frustrated and feeling like life wasn't moving in the direction that I really wanted. I questioned my purpose, my value and most of all my own sense of self. I found many nights where all I could do was pray, hold onto my faith and let go of all control and understanding of why. I gave my heart, my mind and my spirit over to God in that darkest hour.
I wanted to share this with those of you who are feeling stuck, or are hurting, or simply feel lost. I hope this helps you regain your faith and set your compass north again.
Help me find my way. I feel like recently I have gotten off the path I want to be on and the one you intended for me. I have lost some faith along the way to guide me down the path that is truly mine. My heart is open to your love. I want to receive love, believe in love, and be open to love fully without reservation. Not only does this mean love of others, but love of myself, as well.
I want to achieve the greatest depths of love through your guidance and accept love from others and for myself. I want to love full out and big, and hope to be able to accept that magnitude of love in return. Help me find my way back. Help me trust in my faith and in your love. Help me to believe in hope again.
In the reflection of your love, I will see the true image of myself, a representation of your perfection. Faith in love, so pure and unyielding, without judgement for the past or apprehension for the future, truly will be the catalyst that sets me free. For the present is the only opportunity to witness the miracles of my soul and to love in all your glory.
Forgiveness and faith also will be key in unlocking the walls I have cemented and the barriers I have built. For these will allow love to flow freely from within my heart. I no longer wish for my fears to paralyze me, but instead I ask for your guidance. I humbly ask you to help me find peace and love within myself, and to be courageous in my quest for truth and growth.
For I am a glorious and powerful child of God. I strive to live a more loving, more beautiful, and more harmonious life. I will not only speak of balance in my life, I will embrace it fully and without fear. I know I was created to be great and to sing the song within my heart. Through this journey, I will start to learn how to abundantly live my life with a greater sense of mission and purpose. I will allow my true self to shine the light that is only mine to give.
With my faith, in your grace, I humbly thank you.
Candy Barone is a leadership development expert, trainer & executive coach. She also is an international speaker, author, and the CEO & Founder of You Empowered Strong, LLC.