Do you ever wonder how the energy of others, people you don't even know could affect you? I had that thought today after talking with a coach of mine about the shift in my mindset between last week and this week, and how it felt almost as if a cloud of something I couldn't quite put my finger on rolled through and hit me hard.
Now, don't get me wrong, I am feeling very positive about my life and my purpose. I mean amazing things are happening in my life and with my business ... yet, somehow I am feeling a bit detached from it. I questioned my coach about this, as he is man who has had a lot of experience in understanding energy and balance, and how the Laws of Attraction really work. When I mentioned that something felt off and I couldn't figure out what it was or where it was coming from, he very easily put things into perspective for me ...
He simply said that I was attracting the energy of the Universe and what was happening on a more global scale. That the world, right now, was full of doubt and fear, with so many issues going on and uncertainties present. He said it's as if the excitement from the New Year faded and people are left wondering what if such-and-such happens, how will I, and what if I can't. This doubt has overtaken the energy moving around us this week.
I almost allowed myself to feel defeated for just a quick moment after he said that. I mean I spend so much time being present and intentional about my own energy and being purposeful about what I attract to me and my space. Now, here is my coach telling me that there is all this energy I have no control over and that it is sucking some of my own focus away and perpetuating my own uneasiness. What??? How I am supposed to accept that and change inside of it of that reality?
Then, we continued talking and I realized that again I need to remember there is so much I cannot control. For in truth, there is very little, in the grand scheme of things, that I truly have control over. For as my coach shared with me, there are only 4 things I can control in any given moment: how I think, what I feel, what I believe, and what I expect.
So, where did that leave me? Well, exactly in a position to make up my own mind about how I would let the energy around me affect me. I may not be able to change the shift in the Universe, or the doubt of many, but I could take action to make sure I am spending my time in the most productive space possible. That I can continue to stay present and focused on my goals and the life I am trying to create. That I can continue to inspire, influence, and impact those who are willing to receive what I have to offer. And, that I can pray for those who are letting doubt and fear paralyze them.
For I choose to take responsibility for how I think, what I feel, what I believe, and what I expect. As my amazing coach quoted Confucius to me, "He who masters oneself is the mightiest warrior.” And, I for one, am a strong and beautiful warrior!
As a mighty warrior I have decided that I will continue to keep myself in a place of gratitude, for my blessings are overflowing. I will keep myself in a place of generosity, as my gift and passion is to lift up others so they might see their own light. And, I will keep myself in a place of curiosity, for the world holds many wonders and I am always learning and growing.
I am empowered strong! I am a mighty warrior!
OK, the first full week of 2014 has come and gone!!! How many of you came out of the gates fired up and ready to go? For those of you who have hit the ground running ... woo hoo!!! Keep going!!! Keep fueling the fire that has you But, let me ask you: Do you have an accountability plan to keep your momentum going?
What about those of you who are still a little shaky as to what your goals are for 2014? Or, maybe you haven't quite been able to get the mojo flowing and the car driving in the right direction? Are you feeling lost, maybe a bit overwhelmed? Let me ask you: Do you have an accountability plan to help you get on course?
If not, that's where I can help! Not only can I help you get crystal clear on the goals you want for this year, I can help you identify the barriers getting in your way, and create a measurable accountability plan to "destroy the noise" and get you moving in the right direction. Now, I assure you there will be some work you will need to do, but if you are ready ... I am here armed and prepared to take you to your next level.
I don't know if it's the magic of the New Year, or the new moon that came with it, but I have been on fire this week!! It is truly incredible all that I have been able to accomplish and organize, the break-throughs and growth I have experienced with clients, and the unbelievable opportunities that are coming my way. As my business grows, I find I am growing with it -- places where I still held onto some fear and doubt are melting away, leaving no trace of what held me back for so long.
For those who don't believe in the Law of Attraction, let me assure you it is very real and very powerful. By creating an intentional mindset and staying focused to the goals and outcomes I desire, I find the actions I need exist directly in front of me and I no longer seem to be waffling on what my next step will be.
How many times do we fight with ourselves to figure out how to or where to start, where the next step will come from, or how we will figure out the pieces to help us get to where we want to go? Too many times, I assure you. What if, instead, you let go of the "how" and simply focus on the "what" ... that is, the what attached to your compelling "why"?
For what happens when we do is magical. Once we destroy the noise and release the fear and doubt holding us back, the answers become crystal clear. The only "how" you need to know is how to let your faith fuel you. For faith is all you need. We make our journey difficult but trying to control how the path unwinds -- rather, we should embrace the journey and let the path guide us. For sometimes in the curves and winds of the road, we find the most amazing and unexpected gifts.
Think about how many times your GPS has given you the shortest route to get you from one point to another ... then, you find yourself stuck in traffic or caught up in construction, or better, that the highway has been renovated and the GPS isn't synced with new route properly. How many times in those instances have you found yourself taking an alternate route only to find the most incredible treasure, maybe it was a hidden hideaway, or one of those whole-in-the-wall, best-place-in-the-world kind of restaurants? Either way, that becomes your new route, or at minimum, a great memory, when you have the destination in mind.
The same is true about your personal GPS. What if you stopped trying to take the shortest route and try alternate routes provided to you? Maybe, try taking a more scenic, or off-the-beaten path route and see where it leads you? What would happen?
But, before you can even do that, you need faith. For faith will give you the promise of something wonderful. Faith tells you that whatever path you take, you eventually will get to the destination you want (or, maybe an even better place you never would have consider otherwise). Dare to take a risk, dare to believe, dare to stretch out of your comfort zone and trust your own internal navigational system. I am!!! ... and, the results have been phenomenal!
I continue to be extremely grateful for all the blessings in my life, and for the love that keeps spilling out of my heart!! I believe in letting my faith be the fuel, letting go of controlling the "how," and giving God the steering wheel. For the outcome is sure to be everything (and, usually more) than I ever dreamed.
Here's to a truly tremendous and powerfully uplifting 2014!!! Happy New Year everyone! #youempoweredstrong
Candy Barone is a leadership development expert, trainer & executive coach. She also is an international speaker, author, and the CEO & Founder of You Empowered Strong, LLC.